There are certain conditions that your doctor or midwife need to know about, even before your next appointment. Should any of these occur, contact your practitioner right away:
MOST IMPORTANT: If your baby’s movements suddenly decrease or stop, or the movement becomes “frantic” please call your doctor or midwife immediately. If they are unavailable, please seek medical help as this may indicate that the baby is in distress.
(with thanks to PAC for original list, http://childbirthanddoulas.
If you lose your baby at any point in your pregnancy, you will need to seek help from sympathetic friends and family, and call upon the Lord for sustenance and comfort in your time of grieving. Far too often miscarriage is ignored or minimize, and far too often women are carrying the weights of both mourning and feeling guilt over not "just getting on with life." Scripture tells us that